Negative And Positive Poles - the polarities of life, ( good/bad, right/wrong, now/later, black/white, love/fear) which appear to be antagonistic to one another; but, in actuality, are complementary. One cannot exist without the other. Part of The Work in Consciousness is to move into a state of neutrality in regards to these dualities.
Negative Love Patterns - the negative rules and admonitions from our parents in childhood. We adopt negative traits or patterns (from our parents, schooling, religion, etc ) to get love. The results of adopting negative traits is that you feel unlovable. You can't give or receive love. The more you try to be loved by your parents, the more unlovable you become. This is a vicious cycle: If you win you lose. It's a Catch-22 situation. Negative Love compels you to sabotage yourself continually by forcing you to reject others or to be rejected by them. (This information comes from "The Negative Love Syndrome" by Bob Hoffman, see Negative Love Syndrome)
Negative Love Syndrome - the adoption of the negative behaviors, rules, moods, laws, and admonitions (overt and covert) of our parents to earn their love, and the subsequent compulsive acting out of those negative traits throughout our life. Rebellion is the alternative choice to the adoption of said behaviors, etc The "I'll show you" attitude where one chooses to take on a behavior distinctly different from one's parents. The end result of either choice is that one feels unlovable. (see Negative Love Patterns, Unfinished Mommy/Daddy Business)
Negative Polarity - We live in a world of duality: up and down, good and bad, light and dark, etc The negative polarity is one pole of that duality. It complements and coexists with the positive pole. The ego generally judges this negative polarity to be bad or awful. However, without this negative pole, the positive pole cannot exist. (see Unfinished Mommy/Daddy Business)
Neutrality - moving into a state of acceptance of the two poles of any duality. Embracing both sides of any and all polarities (dualities). The neutral state of Being encompassing all polarities with Conscious Love and acceptance.